Did you see the mayhem over at Change.org's Sustainable Food page with Natasha Chart's "Eating Animals?"
I'm writing about it because I'd like to learn any lesson I can to prevent parts of it from happening again (you know, the parts that happen all the time and will probably continue to). There has got to be some way to have things turn out differently. Or at least progress differently.
Natasha isn't like Mary Martin at Animal Person. Though of course she's an individual with an individual blog, I assume that the the blogs
over at Change.org are supposed to be about information and
serious discussion and that there's some kind of responsibility to not be rude or intentionally antagonize anyone, and Natasha went the
latter route. That smacked of an etiquette disorder to me, but I could be
wrong in my assumption about the tone of Change.org blogs as I don't have
too much time to spend on blogs and the like.
Also, though I started this blog being far more obnoxious and offensive than I am now (and you thought it wasn't possible), and that kind of ranting does indeed have a place in the blogosphere, I made a conscious decision to go in a different direction--more often. And I think that decision has worked for me and for the animals, as more people will read if I don't rant all of the time.
Question #1: When someone goes right for the "tasty" button, essentially mocking the suffering of another being, do you write them off as callous and impossible to reach and not even bother with trying to reason with them? They're not making fun of me (though that will likely come later), they're making fun of the fact that someone is killed for their flesh. That's just not right.
And then there's the inevitable mention of "humane" farming, and though I did link to HumaneMyth.org in my comment, my comment disappeared and gave me an "oops" as there were server problems yesterday (several times). That's legitimate, as most people do indeed neglect to think through the concept of farming to the part about taking someone's life when you don't need to, and of course many of the other hideous aspects of animal husbandry simply aren't widely known. We need to point that out once and leave, thereby not giving someone like Natasha undue attention and time. She doesn't appear to care, but some of her readers might.
Next, the pedophilia argument, which invariably results in comments like one on Natasha's blog:
[A commenter] is still comparing meat eaters to pedophiles. His argument is this: Vegans = normal but meat-eaters think like pedophiles. It is a facile and inflammatory argument, and used by prosthletizers [sic] everywhere to shame people into believing like they do. How do prosthletizers [sic]for other causes that you don't support fare in your world view when they use this argument? I thought so...
I have never, ever seen this go well. Is your goal to enrage the person you're trying to convert, thereby closing their mind completely? Because that's what happens. How about going with something they might be less triggered by, such as comparing cows to dogs? Favoring cows over dogs as food is an accident of birth and geography. And yes, there are cultures where having sex with and marrying young girls is acceptable, but why go there?
Finally, and I welcome suggestions for getting around this . . .
Question #2: What about the notion of choice? It is indeed our choice to not kill when we don't need to. And the person who eats animals is choosing to kill and choosing to harm. And though harm to sentient beings might indeed be an unintended consequence of, say, growing soybeans, it's not the purpose of growing soybeans. When you choose to eat somebody's flesh or secretions, you are choosing to hurt them. You intend to kill them, right? Or am I wrong? I mean, how can you intend to eat a steak and not intend to kill a cow. And if you know what is really involved in the production of cheese (like, for instance, the mucous lining of the fourth stomach of the calf--the veal calf), how can you say you're not intending to hurt someone? How can you separate the two? Can you?
Okay, question #2 was way more than one question, but I'm stuck here. I don't see a way that the conversation can ever land the animal-eater in a position where they're not extremely defensive because I just told them they want to hurt and kill animals. The choice discussion, which animal-eaters are so fond of, is quickly and easily turned against them. But if they bring it up, they should be able to deal with that.
But they can't. They get defensive because I've just "attacked" them when I'm merely moving the discussion along, beginning with the word they just brought up: choice. It's almost too easy, but winning the logic part of the argument (or the linguistic one) only makes them more angry and likely to jump right to "fundamentalist," "extremist," and "fanatic," and then it's all over because it has spiraled into ridiculousness.
I comment at Grist, and sometimes Ideal Bite, because they have big audiences and I might make a dent. Even when the word "tasty" is present. But then I think that someone so committed to justifying what they like to eat and closing their eyes and minds to the moral argument is probably better left to their delusions (meaning my energy is better spent elsewhere).
But then I remember that we were all those people once (okay, maybe not exactly like them, but we did have plenty of reasons for eating animals) and we changed, so I can't help but hope that they might too. And of course, now I'll be accused of being self-righteous.
And around and around we go.
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